Do you remember this post? Well, I think I'm slowly beginning to figure things out, I think I'm finding the way to make things work. I think perhaps for a while, I was a little too comfortable hiding behind excuses.
I just came off of a three week solo parenting block. Although we missed our guy, we did well. The kids were happy, I was happy, we found a groove and we went with it.
One thing I noticed is that when my husband is away, I sure can get a lot of sewing and shop work done. Perhaps it's because I am now practically getting a full nights sleep (baby J is only getting up once a night most nights), perhaps it's because I've made the commitment to take my shop to where I want it to go, I don't know. All I know is that whatever it is,
it's working
I phoned my mum the other day to tell her that if I, or anyone else says that I can't do it, to remind them of the past three weeks, because these three weeks are proof that yes, I can do this!
Now, will it always go this smoothly, will I always have this much energy, will I always be this full of zest....probably not, it's not being negative, it's just reality.
Sometimes I'll have to go searching for that little burst of energy, sometimes I will have to give it a little more effort, sometimes I'll need inspiration to get going again, what I do know is that the desire is there. I will probably sew/work less when my husband is home than when he's away, but that's ok. I just have to make sure I keep it somewhat consistent, right?
I have goals I want to meet, I have dreams I want to come true, and because of that, I will do my best to make them a reality!
the learning curve is an interesting one, but a fun one.
figuring it out, it's fun isn't it? almost a relief at times....




you're an inspiring soul, nicey!
ReplyDeleteyou amaze me with all you do amid busy, busy times.
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thanks so much for being part of the blog-a-thon http://rikrakstudio.blogspot.com/2010/09/blog-thon.html nicey!
k.
What a lovely post! Enjoy the sunny day!
ReplyDeleteYour attitude is infectious! Love it. It definitely is fun trying to figure it out. Your items are adorable and I've hearted you for future gifts :)
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